“The materialist interpretation of reality
is a failure in terms of happiness.”
Francis Lucille
Academic Genius
Please give the above quote some extra love, it is really deep.
The ‘materialist’ is you and me, identified as persons. How important is happiness (distinct from pleasure)?
The gift of Life ❤️
We were not born to cry, we were born to lovingly thrive; to thrive together, in service of Life.
Instead we learned to belief in lack and struggle.
Quite amazing to dis-cover that suffering is simply a misunderstanding. 😇
In my case there was so much willfulness, eagerness and unhappiness; simply because of a subtle misunderstanding about who and what I am!
Pride & Shame
It is priceless to debunk suffering in good company, through understanding, through gentleness; to powerfully expose the me-virus as the root of our collective sickness.
Sex, m-one-y, hypnotism…

Mind-f#*&?
(excuse my french 🕊️)
More down to earth: how to invite our 13 year-old daughter to dis-cover the difference between sex and love, pleasure and happiness?
Bye Bye, have a good life…
Most likely you will just click somewhere else and be gone… back in the familiarity of the story-world.
Why was it so hard to learn to ask freedom-questions?
Why did it take so long to trust Life?
Why is it so precious to meet truth-lovers at the Garden Of Friends and Sangha Of One?
A little thinking goes a long way!
The why question leads into endless rabbit holes.
“What am I?” is such an embarrassing question, to transition from person to Presence.
Alone I was stuck in the me-bubble, in unaware/normal pride, shame, expectations and attachments.
Quite amazing 🥰🙏 to be together, to shamelessly and effortlessly debunk the paper tigers of me and you, this and that. Fascinating: for decades I was intimidated, and somehow paralyzed by thoughts and feelings I assumed to be “me”.
Disclaimer: this free and non-commercial website here is a labor of love (it’s for a small niche of truth lovers, probably not for you).
Shamelessly send me an email, say hello, feel free to complain, to come plain: Holger@1st-world-therapy.com
To bring the fun back into dysfunctional. 🥰
Playfully, artfully, intelligently, lovingly…
The core principle of computers is extremely simple: zero or one, yes or no; but out of it comes never-ending enormous complexity!
Spirituality is not a gaining of more information, skills and powers, but the dis-covery of the gift of Life as IS, prior to mind.
We are the current wave of humanity!
We don’t need to wait for politicians and experts to fix this world for us, to wait for future-happiness.
Love, Presence, Reality is always available to comfort, guide and nurture us; but somehow I didn’t appreciate it for decades.
As an adulled, as a passive consumer, I was scared to death when I couldn’t make sense, when the mind had nothing to do.
Essentially, we are always whole and complete,
but Mr and Mrs Mind 🐣 can only process contrast.
As a friend,
who was addicted to thinking and suffering.
Holger Hubbs
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